A simple concept, yet one that many people are either unwilling, or unable, to grasp. Your emotions, your traits and your feelings are reflected back at you from other people. Either through in-kind responses or through predictable reactions to the emotions or feelings that you're projecting. Most of the time our feelings going on with ourselves projects outward to others around us. You can sense this when we meet someone for the first time and we may feel a "negitive vibe" from that person. They could be having a bad day themselves and they are just in a negative state of mind. Altho' first impressions may cause us to draw a conclusion about someone like that. Passing judgement wouldn't really be accurate. This is due to how that person feels within themselves and it projects outward to others they may come in contact with. Now a lot of people have developed the ability to put their best foot forward. Even when things may not be so positive for them. This is a good trait because what you think about within will project outward and show on the surface.
For most people hearing kindness from someone can give them hope and make them feel better. Believe it or not, once you realize the power of positive re-enforcement, this can be helpful to someone who could use the positive boost in their life at that moment. It is also great feedback for ourselves. When was the last time you told yourself that you respect, trust and love yourself and you have worth and value as a human being? Try this while looking in your own eyes. Do you think you need another person to give you that? You don't. When we learn to love and trust ourselves we begin to care more about what we do, what is good to keep in our lives, what to change for the better and how our outlook changes our own perception of ourselves and our lives. We allow ourselves to feel good about who we are as a human being. We are no longer concerned about what others may think. After all what others think about us is their business not ours. We find that we can do a lot more things than we thought because we gave ourselves the chance to prove it by developing our own belief and support system from within. And when you look in the mirror, we no longer think how we look to others. We think how good we feel and how wonderful of a day we'll have. What the days experience will teach us. What positive reflection I can share with others. You will feel a self assurance and confidence about yourself.
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